The Velvet Café

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Watching him growing makes me sad

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To be honest I feel a little bit saddened whenever I see Gérard Depardieu on a movie screen. It’s not just that I’m thinking about his bottle peeing in airplanes of lately. It’s the fact that he seems to be growing for every movie he makes, completely out of control. Isn’t there someone around who cares enough about him to try to make him come to his senses? Watching him I come to think Eric Linclater’s children’s fantasy novel The Wind of the Moon, where the girls Dinah and Dorinda are exposed to an evil wind from the moon and start to eat uncontrollably until they’re bouncing around on the streets.

I’m sorry if I’m coming out like a very blunt jerk saying this. But it’s the ugly truth. It’s what I see whenever I see him and it makes me so sad because I happen to like him.

Just to make sure there’s no misunderstanding: I don’t by any means belittle people who have issues with their weight due to illness. And I’m strongly against the predominant body ideal which lures healthy young women into hurting themselves by self starvation.

But in the case of Depardieu, there’s no doubt about the fact that his current condition is dangerous and a result of a self destructive way of life. And what more: I think it affects his acting in a bad way, as it did in the latest movie I watched with him, My Afternoons with Margueritte.

In this movie he plays Germain, a middle-aged man who barely can read, but who likes to study the pigeons as he’s having a lunch break in the park. One day he meets an elderly woman who starts to read to him from books like Camus’ The Plague. An unexpected friendship starts to grow as new worlds open to Germain.

To be more precise I don’t have any problem with his actual acting. It’s for a good reason that he’s become one of the biggest movie stars in France, if not The Biggest (in a double sense.)

It’s when he’s supposed to assume the role of first lover that I get into trouble. In this movie he’s paired up with a girlfriend who isn’t just very good looking and attractive, but also at least twenty years younger and about a third of his weight – or less.

I don’t say that those things never happen. Old and fat guys can get gorgeous women too; fortunately enough. But it would have felt natural if the unusualness of their relationship somehow had been acknowledged in the movie, so we could get the question out of our mind: what does she see in him?

Another piece of thought: would they ever let a woman get away with that body in a movie, letting her have an incredibly looking young lover without explaining it one way or another? Probably not. The movie industry is much harsher on women in that aspect.

Perhaps the whole thing has something to do with culture. Gérard Depardieu is immensely successful and it appears to me that successful men in France are regarded as sexually attractive, regardless of their appearance. How else would the older men in power get all those women?

Well, for all my gloomy thoughts about Gérard Depardieu, there were things about this movie that were enjoyable, especially for a book lover like me. While I hated seeing Depardieu in bed with his girl friend, I loved to see him on the bench, talking about the pigeons and life and literature.

Above all I loved Gisèle Casadesus, who plays the role of the old lady with all the charm and vulnerability and warmth you could ask for. She’s just amazing. Born in 1914 she did her first role in a movie in 1934. And she’s still going strong, making several movies a year, would you believe it?

My Afternoons with Margueritte (La tête en fiche, Jean Becker, FR, 2010) My rating: 3,5/5

Written by Jessica

October 6, 2011 at 1:00 am

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  1. I always felt it was a feature of french films that you often find older men having affairs with younger women. (Have you seen Le Bossu, for example? In that one the guy has an affair with his foster child (when she is of age) and it’s presented as perfectly OK.)


    October 6, 2011 at 7:07 am

    • Yeah I figure you’re right. It’s just that in the case of Depardieu his size adds an extra dimension to it. It’s strange to see.


      October 6, 2011 at 7:18 am

  2. “Gérard Depardieu is immensely successful and it appears to me that successful men in France are regarded as sexually attractive,”
    Well i would like to correct you on that sentence, switch the word France to world, can also switch successful to celebrity if so I totaly agree with your statement 😉
    Depardieu is one of my favorite actors but when he is growing in size that much it´s hard to see him in some roles.


    October 6, 2011 at 11:57 pm

    • Yeah, you’re probably right, but I think they’re a bit more on the extreme in France. Thinking of certain politicians.


      October 7, 2011 at 12:26 am

  3. I’m originally from France and for that reason I grew up with parents watching Depardieu films. He’s a great actor, but you’re probably right when you say the movie should probably have accounted for why a young girl would be attracted to him.

    I’m not sure that French people regard successful people as sexually attractive any more than people in the United States, though :p And it wouldn’t explain why the young woman would be find him attractive as his character isn’t a highly successful person.

    Also, hi ^^ How’ve you been!


    October 10, 2011 at 10:52 pm

    • Hi there! You need to write more on your blog. I like your ponderings over a coffee cup….(No wonder I figure ;))

      Re: the young ladies admiration – I suspect that the fact that Depardieu is so successful sort of spills over to his movie character.

      And I’m fine! 🙂


      October 10, 2011 at 11:27 pm

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